Do you think that your man is cheating on you? What are some of the signs that he is cheating? How can you know for sure if your boyfriend or husband is running around with another woman? Other than asking him, in which case he would probably deny it, and hiring a private detective, there are signs that he is cheating on you that you can be looking out for.
You might want to just ask him outright or bluff him into confessing that he is cheating on you by tellin him that you know but you need some sort of proof first. You need more than suspicion before you do that. After all, it could all be just some jealousy paranoia that is causing you to think that he’s cheating on you so before you ruin what might be a perfect relationship you should check a few things. You need to ease your mind or decide if you need to move forward with trying to figure out if he is cheating or not.
Maybe you have noticed that he has been acting different towards you. Maybe his attitude has changed or he seems preoccupied often when you are together. Any sort of change might make you think that something is wrong and maybe the thought that he is carrying on with someone else has come to your mind. Maybe he’s very protective of his cell phone or you have noticed that he keeps it turned off when you are together. Maybe he has it in his pocket all the time or he has put a password on his phone to keep you from using it or checking his phone for text messages or call history.
Even though none of this is conclusive proof that he is cheating on you. To prove or disprove this theory, try asking him if you can use his cell phone sometime to make a call. Forget yours at home and simply ask to use his phone to make a call. If he becomes nervous or refuses to give you his cell phone then we have a problem. if you find text message from another woman or pictures of another girl in his phone then this is probably all the proof you need. If so, allow him to explain. It could all be completely innocent such as an old girlfriend that won’t leave him alone. He could have been protecting you from this and such things do happen.
Another thing that you can check is his internet usage. Cheaters often use email and chat messaging to communicate. If he is hiding his internet usage or if you notice that there is a new account on his computer that is password protected then maybe he is trying to hide something. You can check is internet usage by looking at the browser history. If it has been cleared out then you know that he is up to something. It could be that he is frequenting dating sites or chatting with someone. By default a computer will hold on to the internet history for two or three weeks. A clean internet history is very suspicious.
All of these things might not be absolute proof that your boyfriend is cheating on you with someone else but it does raise some suspicions. You might want to look closer at what’s going on in his life. Is there a new girl at work or does he have a new female friend that he talks about sometimes, perhaps nervously? Be aware of conflicting stories that he might tell you but try not to accuse him of anything. Cheaters always mess up and get caught eventually. He will eventually be seen by someone or leave something out in the open by accident that you weren’t meant to see. But what do you want to do about it?
Whether you decide to search further and find out for sure if he is cheating or if you want to try to strengthen your relationship and make him not want to cheat is up to you. You really can cheat-proof your relationship and make him desire you and you alone once you understand why men cheat and what they really want in a woman. Most men cheat because they are missing something in their present relationship. If you know how to give him that attention and make him feel emotionally that he is needed then you will never have to worry about having a cheating boyfriend ever again.