A female’s nurturing and sweet nature is what makes her wonderful. It’s also what often gets her stepped all over and makes her neglect her needs! So many women have been in unsatisfying relationships, where men just aren’t pulling their weight, and if you ask them why they stay, they’ll offer you a laundry list of reasons why the guy is unable at the moment to satisfy her needs. Great, so she’s got a list of reasons. Do reasons bring you flowers or cuddle you? No. So ladies, stop coming up with these “reasons” and demand what you need!
He can’t pay for EVERYthing
It’s true that if your guy was going to pay for absolutely everything, he’d be broke fast. But, don’t let him stop treating you entirely! And that’s the keyword: treating. He’s not paying because you can’t afford to but as a gesture of doing something nice for you! And that is something which no amount of time together should get in the way of happening.
He’s just so busy
There’s no excuse for your boyfriend to not get in touch for an entire day. Extenuating circumstances aside obviously but, just leading his regular life, going to work etc. he has two seconds to send you a text message. Even if it’s in the bathroom. If he doesn’t, it’s not because he’s busy. Everyone’s busy. It’s because you’re not a priority. I hated hearing my pal who is a very busy voice coach in LA, giving up to 12 singing lessons each day, make this excuse for her boyfriend. I was like, “Hello! Within the 1 minute you have between teaching kids how to sing, you’ll call him. He can’t do the same for you?”
He’s just not good at communicating
Women state this like it’s as simple as, “He just doesn’t like ham.” But more importantly, they state it as if it’s something the guy can’t control. Don’t ever, EVER fall for that nonsense. Everyone can be a communicator if they put some effort in. Sometimes that effort goes as far as going to therapy but, if a man cares about you, he will make that effort rather than making make the effort of getting through a non-communicating relationship.
He’s just not ready to…
Commit, move in together, meet your family, get married plus a whole other slew of stuff that women in many cases are ready to do before their partners, and will wait a very long time for their partner to catch up on. But be honest with yourself: if it’s meant to be, you’re usually on the same page about those steps. Or at least close.